2026-NYC / Lincoln in the Bardo

Happy Birthday!

My birthday was last Friday (#68) and I was on a plane with my sister, bound for NYC!

Too full for dessert on my birthday, this was at our hotel on Saturday!

Our flight departed at around 6am, and was direct, so we arrived in Newark very early. We transited to our hotel & were able to check in early, so that was great.

I was looking at a map of NYC a few weeks ago and noticed AKC Museum of the Dog. I don’t know why it caught my eye — I’m not what you’d call “a dog person” on most days (it depends on the dog) — but it did, it stuck, and it ended up on Friday’s itinerary!

First, though, we needed lunch! We happened to pass Virgil’s Real Barbecue on the way to the museum, and that was just perfect… with birthday ice cream for dessert!

It is not a large museum. There was a nice mix of paintings & sculpture, a special exhibition, some interactive elements, and a nice gift shop.

And a library.

This is “Austrian Pug Band,” cold painted bronze ca 1870. Those little pugs are 2″ tall, at most, and absolutely delightful!

Ann had read that the Christmas tree had been delivered to Rockefeller Center, so we took a walk over there on Saturday after breakfast.

Lots of consultation amongst the people wearing safety vests. We couldn’t get very close, obviously, as it was a work zone, but the people!! Let me tell you, the holiday season is well underway in NYC!

We also walked past Christie’s Auction House and this cone of yarn by Lichtenstein was one of the items in the window. There’s a major retrospective of Roy Lichtenstein at The Whitney right now, but we didn’t make it there… close, but no banana.

The impetus for the trip was, of course, the Saturday matinee of Lincoln In The Bardo at the Metropolitan Opera House.

What an amazing experience and place.

I took few photos. This was at the end of the show… from the cheap seats, obviously! haha. The lovely man who took our tickets said that that’s where the sound is best! The woman sitting next to me pointed out the screens at each seat for reading translations (or just the lyrics), which was helpful… opera being opera. The sets were amazing, the cast was incredible… and special effects!! Big ones!

In the audience, just a row ahead of us, was Abraham Lincoln… a cosplayer complete with top hat, tux & even a little lantern such as the one the character used on stage. Alone. Weird, but OK!

EDITED TO ADD: THE MET WILL BROADCAST THE FINAL PERFORMANCE OF LINCOLN IN THE BARDO ON SATURDAY NIGHT (NOV 14th). You can set a “reminder” at the YouTube link below.

We met up with MDK Kay for a quick visit afterwards; she had seen the opera on opening night (lucky!), so it was fun to talk about that… and catch up on other things!

We hoofed it back to our hotel — we walked everywhere while in the city — and had dinner there. We were at the Intercontinental Times Square, and their restaurant was called The Stinger.

I kept that cute little bee perched on my Queen Bee cocktail!

Ann signed us up for a Chelsea Market & High Line Food Tour, so we headed down to Chelsea. It was really fun. Chelsea Market is huge, and has an interesting history. All of the food we sampled were from vendors located in Chelsea Market — including Chelsea Market Baskets (chocolate), from whom I’ve ordered before, so it was fun to visit in person. We also had some lovely bakery, pizza, hot dogs, tacos, and gelato.

And a little walk up on The High Line with the group.

After the tour, Ann & I walked up The High Line as far as we could on our way to The Waylon, for the football game.

I had my time zones crossed, so we ended up there a couple of hours early. But that was OK! A couple of former students that Ann knew from their time in Valencia live in the city now, and they both stopped in for a visit. Neither was aware that the other lived in NYC (one of them very recently arrived), so it was nice that they could connect.

Naturally, we met some people from Wisconsin right off the bat, and others with various connections. We were pretty pooped overall, though, so after the girls left, we went back to the hotel and watched the last part of the game there.

Our flight home was not direct, so we had a short layover in Chicago — this is just as we started to cross Lake Michigan. I never get tired of views like that!

Next up:

There’s nothing major on the calendar until then, and we’ve started our group Wanderlog! Let the planning begin!

2026-NYC / Lincoln in the Bardo · Unraveled Wednesday / Knit & Read

Unraveled Wednesday: Almost There

Iโ€™m joining Kat & the Unravelers for Unraveled Wednesday!

KNITTING

I might have had a finished gnome to show today, but I didn’t like how his nose turned out last night & was too distracted (in such a very good mid-term blue wave way) to make another one.

Not only will he have a schnoz, he’ll also be mustachioed! The nose/mustache combo will push up the brim of his bowler-ish hat a bit and I think it’ll be really cute, even if not quite traditional. The yarn is all grabbed from stash, and that maroon yarn was a PITA on small needles — very splitty & not very well behaved overall, but it’s also good at hiding the multitude of mistakes that I most surely made.

The hand was different than any I’ve done, and very simple, but I still love the magic of the mittened hand of All Work, Gnome Play from 2021 (one of my favorite gnomes). Maybe an FO post next week!

I’ve already signed up for Wee Three Gnomes, Sarah’s December MKAL. They’ll be small, ornaments if desired, along the lines of the little guy in Leave Gnome Stone Unturned (another favorite).

READING

Same as it was & will likely be for a while. Pages: Wellness by Nathan Hill. Audio: Barbara Kingsolverโ€™s Partita.


Tomorrow I’m heading down to Madison right after work. Annie & I catch an early morning flight to Newark on Friday! Our hotel is at Times Square, so we’re in the thick of it, and have a little something planned every day — museums, restaurants, a food tour, even a Packers bar — but you may recall that the main attraction is Lincoln In The Bardo at the Metropolitan Opera House. I’m so excited. It opened a few weeks ago, and George Saunders has attended at least twice. In one of his Substacks, he shared a documentary about the making of the opera.

I’ve seen a few other videos from the opera & read some reviews, as well, but it’ll be amazing to see it all! I haven’t attended an opera since I was in high school — the only other opera that I’ve ever attended — and I don’t remember which one, but I do remember enjoying it!

Weekending

Weekending

I started the “weekend” with a tour of Rusty’s new studio after work on Thursday. I only work the morning on Fridays, if at all, so it hardly even seems like a workday sometimes.

It’s half of a large classroom, and that bay window is nice… it faces west, so gets the late day sun.

He hadn’t quite finished unpacking all of the boxes, but accomplished that over the weekend.

It won’t be long until it has that “lived in” feeling.

He asked me to look at his drafting chair to see if I could recover it — the seat upholstery had a couple of big holes in it.

Hm. I wonder why… 40+ years of use!!

My stash of upholstery fabric is quite meager, but I had this great, very 1980s swatch from a St Vinny’s grab a few years ago. It’s really perfect. Very art-y, don’t you think? I stretched & pulled (it was just deep enough to fit) while Rusty wielded the staple gun, and we got it done on Sunday.

When I got home on Friday afternoon, I had barely arrived when Kate asked if I’d like to join her & Kai for a walk at High Cliff. I didn’t even have my shoes off yet, so no (lame) excuses!

The weather has been incredible… but we all know that it isn’t going to last! It was so pretty.

I mostly put my head down & worked on my quilt over the weekend. I cut 144 squares; marked, pinned, sewed & trimmed them to make 288 half square triangles… well, I’ve still got a bunch of those to trim, but getting there. After that, they’ll be sewn into units of two, and then they’ll be sewn to make some long “flying geese” -type strips.

I’ll be back on Wednesday with some knitting!!

Quilting · Weekending

Encore! Encore!

When I rearranged my work schedule a few years ago to get a nice chunk of days off every other week (4.5, including a weekend), what I had in mind most — besides the ability to more easily go on long weekend jaunts — was the ability to really dig into a project. The past weekend was exactly that & then some. I would like another!!

I started dabbling with the next step of my big quilt on Friday afternoon, having finally figured out how to make the brain-bender irregular triangle blocks that I wanted/that would fit. I thought I had it figured out… there was a minute when I was seriously considering an alternative design. But I persevered.

I heeded an earlier learned lesson & stopped to sew together a few of those blocks before I got carried away cutting everything. I’m determined not to pull or buy any more fabric for this quilt top, and I needed to make an adjustment or I’d have cut half of those smaller triangles wrong! Whew.

It was a gorgeous day, so once I knew I was on the right path, I got outside. We had evening beverages out back, watching birds, the sky, the leaves, etc. And then, it was time for baseball! I’m not normally a fan (though I watched an entire world series when I was in high school — when it was in August instead of October — for no particular reason), but when the Milwaukee Brewers are in the World Series… I’m there. And they won Game 1 in a best of 7 series!

There were other things on my to-do list for the weekend, too, such as doing our semi-annual screen/storm window switcheroo, which also involves washing windows. We did that on Saturday morning (having postponed it on Friday).

Ta-da! That’s one of the upstairs/Airbnb bedroom windows & I have to crawl out a big porch window onto the roof of the back porch to access that part of the house. It’s great because no ladder is involved. But it was the first time I tried doing that since my hip was replaced, and I was nearly stranded — one foot in & one foot out — but finally wiggled through! It was a little easier getting back inside. It was easier the next day, too, when I went upstairs to get the Airbnb ready for upcoming guests & retrieved a pair of gloves that Rusty left on the porch roof!

And I installed the new fridge that Davy & Ginny helped me buy. That involved unboxing & a bit of rearranging in pretty tight quarters. The tiny little fridge it replaced was sent with Rusty & a few things got tossed which helped. A lot more needs to get tossed/dealt with, but I’m on the track.

A coworker who also does sound at a local theatre (his wife does lights) offered me tickets to a show on Saturday, so Ali & I took the kids to Magic Rocks! We were in the third row, had a great view, and the show was fun! Leon Etienne, the illusionist, was very straightforward & entertaining, and he kept things moving.

The kids all had a great time (though the tween grumbled a little… mostly for show). Ginny has already learned a couple of tricks!

Then Game 2 of the World Series, and the Brewers win again!!

On Sunday, I spent part of the day squaring up & cutting, then pinning, sewing & trimming triangles into rectangles.

First one side, then the other.

So many pins! So many fabric scraps (I keep all but the tiniest)!

The Packers lost (boo), and the Brewers were headed to Tampa Bay (no game).

On Monday, other than going to vote early (YAY!) & making a quick stop at the hardware store, I sewed all day long! I finished up all the blocks for this border, laid everything out on a big sheet on the floor to get the arrangement/orientation just right, made some pinwheels for the corners, and sewed it all up.

It went a lot quicker than I thought it would. Then I threw it on the bed to reassess the plan.

The plan/goal is to have a substantial drop — in the end, it’ll reach the wood part of the bed frame. It’s currently the same size as the quilt that’s on the bed (the one I made last year) and it’s just not wide enough for comfortable sleeping. Someone’s always a bit short (usually me)! Right after these photos, I sewed another strip of the narrow striped border fabric all around. That’ll be it for borders at the top of the quilt, besides binding, or there’ll be way too much fabric up there — the triangle border on that end might even be too much.

The Brewers won Game 3! And what a game — 10-1!! The fifth inning was crazy — they scored 8 runs! So fun to watch.

On Tuesday, I started gathering all the leftover fabrics from making the blocks, along with the aforementioned scraps, to start cutting for the next border, which will be a 4″ wide band of scrappy flying geese. That will echo one of the improvised scrappy blocks within the quilt — one of my favorites.

Kate & I prepped the Airbnb for guests arriving Thursday — an unusual day for arrivals, but the Packers had a short week & have a Thursday Night Football home game. Ann came up to do yard work at her house, then came over to ours for dinner & overnight. It was nice to catch up, as she & Brian had been in Europe from mid-September to mid-October.

We all stayed up late to watch the Brewers — because if they won, they’d win the Series in a sweep! Alas, the Rays pulled off a win in Game 4.

Wednesday, I was back to work, and then we prepped Ann’s house for the same variety of guests. We had supper in the living room because baseball! And because the signal on the kitchen TV was horrible. Also, we were delayed a bit, so I was able to pause and then fast-forward through commercial breaks to catch up.

They did it!! The Brewers won their first-ever World Series Championship!!

Finally, more sports talk. Remember when I asked you to vote for Menasha High School in T-Mobile’s Friday Night Lights competition? Their football stadium was badly damaged by a tornado at the end of July, so they could really use the help. They WON their division! A big push at the end helped them go from second to a very solid first place. Now they’re one of four schools in the final, and I’m asking that you do it again. You can vote once per day from now through November 8th. Youโ€™ll be asked once again to enter your mobile number, consent to the rules, and agree to receiving a one-time text for verification. Thank you!!

Unraveled Wednesday / Knit & Read

Unraveled Wednesday

Iโ€™m joining Kat & the Unravelers for Unraveled Wednesday!

KNITTING

I’ve been knitting, but going slow… there’s a bothersome strain in my forearm (and upper arm) (and shoulder) (not just from knitting) & I need to be careful not to over-do. I haven’t taken any photos, either, but it’s not very photogenic right now, anyway. I have finished the gnome’s “sweater” and started one of the sleeves — there’s not much more to go, but I’m not in a race, so it’ll take however long it takes.

SEWING

I’ve been working on my Komebukuro-inspired project bag while doing laundry at Ann’s — it’s usually enough time to get one or two things sewn down.

The spread.

The current panel that I’m working on.

Ideas are percolating for the last two panels.

READING

I’m reading Wellness by Nathan Hill, and it’s going to take a while because I’m slow, but I’m enjoying it… it’s really starting to get interesting. Iโ€™m trying to listen to Barbara Kingsolverโ€™s Partita, and hoped that I’d be able to do while at work, but I can’t pay attention. I relistened to “Prelude I” in the car & it was all new to me! I don’t know why I thought that would work. haha. Back to music…