2025-Chicago

2.20: Chicago Weekend

We packed up the car & headed out on Friday morning. It’s a pretty long drive — over 3.5 hours — and the kids were AMAZING in the car. It helped that much of the drive was “new” and there was plenty to see. Kate packed a little goodie bag for each kid, too. Our timing was great & we didn’t hit any “traffic,” so even with lunch & gas stops, we arrived in Chicago a couple of hours ahead of schedule.

It was love at first sight! They were hugging posts & pillars, loudly declaring their love for Chicago, as we made our way to Willis Tower! (Witnessed by a few very amused Chicagoans.)

Junah didn’t go out on The Ledge much further than that; Ginny would have moved in!

We did a lot of planning ahead, and had purchased CityPASS C3 Tickets. We had a 4pm admission time to Willis Tower (Sears Tower), but we were easily able to change it. Yay for not waiting around!

Told ya… she loved it up/out there — the 103rd floor!

It was my first time there, too, and I enjoyed the informative displays about Chicago architecture & culture on our way to the elevator.

After that, it was time for an ice cream break! Kate bought Davy that Chicago taxi & he “drove” that thing all weekend (love when a purchase turns out to be a great purchase).

Then we left our car with a valet & checked into our hotel — Homewood Suites by Hilton Chicago Downtown South Loop — which was almost perfect for us. There was a small kitchen, with a two-burner cooktop, a microwave, a small dishwasher & a big fridge. Unfortunately, there wasn’t a complete set of anything other than coffee mugs; they advertised that there would be place settings for four, which was short for our group, anyway, so I brought extra, and there was only a covered frying pan. (Stanley Tucci, who loves to cook, has been burned by bad kitchen supplies at rental houses so many times that when they travel, he now brings his own cookware!) The living room had a sleeper sofa and a chair, and the bedroom had two queen beds; both rooms had a TV, which was great for wind-down time. Notably, there was no Netflix (despite the big dedicated button on the remotes) nor any streaming, which was disappointing at first, but turned out just fine in the end. (We ended up watching part of The Devil Wears Prada, the last little bit of Monsters Inc, and some of Monsters University — none of which would have received approval from the kids if there’d been other choices.)

The view from our 11th floor hotel room — the Shedd Aquarium in the distance on the left & the Field Museum on the right — the remaining “2” of our “C3” CityPASS destinations. That’s Grant Park across the street, with Agora Big Feet in the foreground (mostly behind the trees). The Metra tracks are running just above middle in that photo and our taxi-wielding train-crazed 4yo was IN HEAVEN!

Besides the many trains, there were fire trucks & other emergency vehicles, buses, taxis, people & dogs, even the occasional helicopter.

As you might imagine, the pool area was a hit! We were down there twice on Friday, and for one good long session on Saturday evening.

We decided to eat in for dinner and after two trips to a nearby Trader Joe’s (keeping in mind that we had only a small frying pan & they were out of eggs), we ended up with hot dogs as our main course.

Davy was asleep by 8, the rest of us were only an hour or so behind.

We set an alarm for Saturday morning because we had a 9am entry to the Shedd, but wanted to enjoy the included breakfast at the hotel, too. (It’s amazing how many people go to that breakfast buffet in their PJs!)

It was chilly in Chicago, and had snowed a little on Friday night, but it wasn’t awful. Yes, they’re on the overpass with Metra tracks below — and there was some train action below us!

It was my first-ever visit to the Shedd, too, and it was fun to discover it alongside the kids. Davy was eye-to-eye with that little duckling for quite a while, like some kind of cosmic bonding, and Malina had a meet-and-greet with a big turtle. We saw a guy walking around with a tree python, watched an aquatic show featuring Pacific white-sided dolphins, and had lunch before heading to the Field Museum — where I hardly took any photos!

On Sunday morning, we had breakfast and then packed up to head home. Originally, we’d planned to stop at the Rainforest Cafe in Gurnee Mills on the way home, but a) breakfast was barely digested and b) we didn’t have reservations. We decided to stop in Milwaukee, instead, which was more of a half-way point, and decided that the Mitchell Park Domes would be the perfect final stop.

I think Kate & Ali were 3 & 1 the last time we were at the Domes! We enjoyed walking through the Tropical Dome, the Desert Dome, and the kids especially loved the Show Dome. There were trains! And there was a scavenger hunt, which Ginny & Malina enjoyed doing.

They have a small coffee counter at The Domes, rather than a full-blown cafe, so we ended up at a fast food joint around the corner before starting on the last leg home.

We all had such a great time & the kids got along so well. I think there were tears twice the whole time, and once was because someone accidentally got bonked in the head. It would have been so great to have Ali there, too, but it was also great for the kids NOT to be around their parents for a couple of days — and to be in an entirely new place. They all want to return (there’s so much more to see — “The Bean” got just a drive-by this time)… or go someplace new… Junah mentioned New York and “Would we take a plane??”

2025-Chicago · Discovering With The Kids · Unraveled Wednesday / Knit & Read

2.19: Unraveled Wednesday

Today I’m joining Kat & the Unravelers for Unraveled Wednesday!

KNITTING:

Knitting has been an exercise in fits & starts of late, coupled with indifference & even laziness, which explains why there hasn’t been an Unraveled post since early December! At that time, I was packing up for the trip to Kansas City; I brought the blanket & the gnome (never found my stash of Atlas… I know it’s around here somewhere!), but only worked on the gnome. The lighting was not great at our Airbnb.

I’m starting to make progress with the blanket now, though. Rusty’s panel is attached to Kate’s, and I’ve started attaching hers to Ali’s. So far, so good. It’s going to be pretty unwieldy moving forward, but there are only two other seams. (Then the border.) I’ve been working on it exclusively at Ann’s, where there’s a nice big table on which to spread it all out.

I haven’t finished the gnome, and I’m indifferent. I really shouldn’t be. I love the colors, there were some new-to-me techniques that look cool, I was looking forward to having another “wrecking ball” in my collection… I’m just meh… about pretty much everything.

And I really shouldn’t be. There is SO MUCH happening in my world — good stuff (stuff that I’m not at liberty to share right now) — but still… meh.

Well, I can see right now that this post is going to be a rambler…

Much of that (most) has to do with the state of things in our world. I am not a fan of anything happening in Washington DC right now, and especially not a fan of those in control — elected and NOT.

I’ve had Kym’s Feb 10th Mondays are for Action post marked “unread” in Feedly for over a week and finally took action & made some calls, because nothing contributes more to MEH than doing NOTHING. I loathe making calls like that with the power of 1000 suns, but… if Kym can do it, so can I! (Y’know . . . brush my teeth. Call my member of congress…) I stumbled around with the script a bit (I’m better talking to voicemail), but there was one real person (at one of the Republican offices) who had to listen to me… and when he said, “Thank you for your call, Ms Moses,” I corrected him, and spelled out my last name. I’m still chuckling.

And I will make more calls.

Anyway, back to knitting. I dragged yarn to Charleston and went through the motions, starting a couple of new things, but, y’know… meh. (I was a few repeats in on a shawl that featured k3tbl as the main design feature — with the number of them increasing every repeat — well, that just turned out to be a hard NO.) And the mittens I was excited about… didn’t like the yarn I chose.

Meh.

But I haven’t stopped thinking about Amy Christoffers’ Pressed Flowers Mittens , so I reclaimed some DPNs from a couple of projects (the gnome & a Musselburgh that’s not sparking joy even though the self-striping yarn is GORGEOUS) and cast on last night. It felt good to be knitting again while watching TV! I’m still working the ribbing, and hoping that the mosaic colorwork will be as fun as imagined!

READING:

I finished Stanley Tucci’s What I Ate in One Year and enjoyed it. It’s not setting the world on fire, but it was fun. At the beginning of the book, he was in Italy to film Conclave, which we’ve recently watched. (I need to catch up on some other OSCAR noms!) He drops names a lot in his books, but if I was making a film with Ralph Fiennes, John Lithgow, and Isabella Rossellini, and my sister- & brother-in-law were Emily Blunt & John Krasinski, and I was asked to hobnob here & hobnob there, maybe with King Charles… ha. Yeah.

I’d sure like to visit Italy someday, and some of the restaurants he writes about!

I also read/listened to Ina Garten’s memoir, Be Ready When The Luck Happens, and I enjoyed that, too. Also not setting the world on fire, but I love her cookbooks & her attitude (use GOOD olive oil; if you don’t want to eat raw eggs, then tiramisu is not the recipe for you), and it was comforting to hear a familiar voice.

UPDATE:

My nephew, Dylan, is doing much better and was released late last week. He will be in the care of his mother for the next few weeks, at least until he can be free of the body cast. There are still unanswered questions, and maybe there will never be definitive answers, but he appears to be well on the road to recovery.

PREVIEW:

As you might know, Kate & I took all four kids to Chicago last weekend…

On The Ledge @ Willis Tower

…and not only did we all survive, we all had an absolutely MARVELOUS time! It was a blast & the kids were SO GREAT — they can’t wait to return (or go to NYC!). haha. The possibilities are endless. More soon.

2025-Charleston, SC (40th Anniversary)

1.30: While I Breathe, I Hope.

That’s the slogan on South Carolina license plates, also the state motto.

Isn’t it amazing?

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Thank you all so much for response to the knitsignal! My most recent update was last evening and there are some glimmers of… hope.

UPDATE: I just had a message that his breathing tube was removed & he said his name!!!

ETA another UPDATE: My source just spoke with him & he identified everyone in the room. He’s joking & laughing… when asked if he wanted to see his brother, he said NO… then laughed. Typical behavior!! He also high-fived the doctor.

To say there’s a feeling of relief is to put it mildly. Keep those good things coming!!

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It’s been a coupla weeks, y’all!

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Thank you, too, for your good wishes on our anniversary! It was a little chilly but sunny that day on Kiawah Island, and we had a nice 3-mile out-and-back walk on the beach.

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The sand was very packed… nice to walk on.

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I collected a few shells, ID’d some birds (thanks Merlin!), and saw some interesting things…

The sand was hard, but not boring.

I’ve teased Rusty mercilessly over the years regarding… well, predictability, I guess, especially in terms of diet. He has doctored-up eggs & oatmeal for breakfast every morning; tuna salad for lunch 99 days out of every 100; and would happily eat/rotate four or five favorite dishes for supper, too. I.can.not.

He was living/building/working on a little house at Cape Kiwanda on the Oregon Coast when we were dating (eventually, we finished/enlarged the house together & got married there), and he’d invite me over for supper, which, invariably, was ling cod, brown rice & broccoli. Okay, occasionally the ling cod was replaced with a hamburger or a pork chop… but OMG, ling cod. I’d never heard of it before in my life, and now I was (seemingly) having it all.the.time! Obviously, it was readily available at Lew’s Market in Pacific City or from the fish shop a few doors down from the house.

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A couple of weeks before our getaway, I discovered Wildfish Cannery (probably via a social media link). I was only mildly interested until I saw WILD LINGCOD among the offerings… and I just had to get some! So, for our anniversary lunch, after our walk on the beach, we had tinned ling cod w/mayo on crackers (in lieu of brown rice) (but not far removed from tuna salad) & broccoli salad from a grocery store deli!

I didn’t really care much for ling cod when we were dating, and nothing has changed in 40 years. That tin will be the last ling cod that I’ll ever buy.

But, OMG, the other fish from Wildfish Cannery?? Let me tell ya, both my dad & my father-in-law smoked & canned fish — my dad as a sportsman’s hobby, my FIL as an entrepreneur — and this is right up there with that. So far, I’ve had the Smoked King & Smoked Coho… absolutely delicious! We/I* have yet to try Smoke Coho in Birch Syrup, and Smoked Herring.

*So far, other than what I’ve shared with Rusty, I haven’t been sharing.

2025-Charleston, SC (40th Anniversary)

1.22: Extended “vacation”

I’m sitting in our hotel room at the Hilton Garden Inn. Our original flight was canceled yesterday, which I learned shortly after we stepped into the Gibbes Museum of Art in Charleston, so I really didn’t enjoy that visit as much as I could have. Then came a flurry of rebookings & cancellations… I sort of lost track. There was a lot going on, but I landed one that was to depart this morning & only had one layover at EWR. I could handle that. I extended the rental car and secured our room (which I slightly upgraded, thank god).

Until I stupidly checked my phone in the middle of the night to see what time it was and saw that THAT flight had also been canceled.

Guess what? The Charleston airport is closed. There are NO flights for us tomorrow, so Friday is the best there is. I’ve extended our hotel stay & the rental car (again).

I’ve checked other airlines, Amtrak, and we even considered driving home! Not last night, or even this morning, but now that things are clearing up a bit… but holy cow, it would cost an additional $800+ to return the car to a different airport (even to ORD, which shocked me). The train doesn’t get us there any sooner, and other airlines had little to offer.

Thankfully, things at work are covered, for the most part. And everything is fine at home, despite a polar vortex.

I was fully aware that this was not going to be a tropical getaway, but never in a million years did I think we’d get stuck — and stuck so hard — because of ice & snow in Charleston. I saw on the news (while we enjoyed our complimentary breakfast buffet) that parts of Florida got it even worse!

Anyway, back to the Gibbes…

There’s a permanent exhibit called “Miniature Portraits,” and I saw a face that was familiar — that crooked little mouth & dimpled chin are unforgettable.

This is Mary (Middleton) Shoolbred, who, along with her husband, is buried in the Shoolbred Family Cemetery that I linked to the other day. The plot was very close to our Airbnb and we stopped on Saturday, on our way to the Beaufort Oyster Festival. Mary & I share a birthday — around 160 years apart, and this miniature portrait, watercolor on ivory, was painted by Jean François de la Valée, ca. 1803, only a few years before she died in her early 30s.

We’ve had a great visit — rearranged a few things on Monday after learning the President Biden would be in town — but otherwise according to plan… except for our delayed departure!

2025-Charleston, SC (40th Anniversary)

1.20: Forty

Rusty & I got married 40 years ago today.

Forty! Forty!! Forty!!! It boggles my mind.

We’re in South Carolina today, celebrating MLK Jr Day, too. Us & him… the only two things worth acknowledging today.

It’s incredibly cold at home — -6F/feels like -26 — and while it’s not exactly balmy here (there’s a cold weather advisory tomorrow into Wednesday… maybe even some snow), we’re gone while the weather is bad at home instead of good, for once!

Anyway, forty years…

Forty years, a few houses, three kids, four grandkids, lots of happiness, some sadness, good times, bad times…

Together.